As a 24-year-old, that has had a few relationships in the past and went through therapy, this is the most important thing imo.

To me, marriage feels like taking a flight with your significant other to your dream destination. Unless you both have packed light and removed all the unnecessary shit from your luggage, you won't have many issues during check-in, TSA, etc.

Dealing with your past issues is like removing all the extra clothes and accessories you've (or others) shoved inside your luggage.

The more content you both are with yourselves, the easier it'll be able to deal with every obstacle that gets in your way.

Brilliant article man! :)