You should feel very proud for all the amazingly hard work that you did and I’m very sorry you weren’t appreciated.

Overlooking and “abusing” these archetypes and their importance is what leads to toxic masculinity, exactly as you said with the example of the warrior.

The fact that you felt such a strong need to do so many things for your family I think is a very clear sign that these archetypes do exist.

I’m very sorry you weren’t treated the right way and I hope you’re feeling better now and with a new set of goals to achieve for the future